Having A Routine

We all have routines. Sometimes we don’t recognize them, but we’ve created habits that are a part of who we are. Often times, these show up in big, beautiful and generous ways.

For years, my morning routine has been a grounding and vital aspect of my life. As I make my way down the wooden staircase for my first cup of coffee, relishing the quietness of the house, I make my way to my library. This is my favorite room durning the colder months. The leather furniture is arranged for intimate conversations, while the bookshelves, filled with volumes of wonder and knowledge, invite quiet reflection and learning.

This is where I sit. A stack of books by my side, my journal and my warm cup of coffee.

There is something so special about the way the soft sunrise welcomes me here. It’s as if the morning is asking me to show up quietly and purposefully.

It’s during this time I love to be alone. First with my thoughts, then in prayer and writing. It’s here where my heart can feel heavy and feel full. This is where my tears flow, my aha moments happen and excitement is born. Over the years, this routine has helped me navigate the challenges of my life. Through reflection and listening to my own heart, I’ve created a place to grow. And often times, just learn to move forward.

This is where I see God show up.

So, I give myself a moment. After that, the day can come as it will. I know my day may be hijacked, or busy, or unexpected. But that becomes easier to move through if I’ve had a chance to tend to my heart.

I must say, it didn’t always look this way. When I was raising my boys - my mornings looked like packing lunches, school drop off’s and running errands. Back then, I learned to show up for myself in other ways. Mostly with mid day or evening walks. I found I enjoyed being alone, even for a little while.

I hope you are giving yourself a moment too. It’s okay to create space to fill up, figure life out and settle into the stillness of your own heart. You’ll be back in the flow when you are done, ready for the beautiful or messy life that awaits you. Hopefully a little more grounded.